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A Family in Crisis

A Series of Articles by BuddyT

By Buddy T, About.com

Created: December 14, 2003

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When the telephone call came, with an invitation to come back "home" for a visit, I had not heard the voice on the other end in over 20 years. I accepted the invitation and made the trip, not realizing I would be walking into the midst of a family in crisis -- an emotional powder keg ready to explode.

Chapter 1: A Family in Crisis
This unfortunately is a true story about how many lives one alcoholic can affect, and how alcoholism can spiral into a full-fledged family disease.

Chapter 2: An Alcoholic in Denial
No matter how much they are admonished or scolded, how much encouragement and understanding they are offered, some will never make the decision to stop drinking.

Chapter 3: A Family Disease
She blames herself for the violent outbursts. She lost her temper, lost control and said things that she did not mean. She knew what would happen; this was not the first time he hit her.

Chapter 4: The Cycle of Violence
The brightness of the room causes him to squint and he realizes it's morning -- the next day. He says to himself, "If this is Saturday morning, what happened to Friday night?"

Chapter 5: The Cycle Continues
The incident of domestic violence that we witnessed in our series "A Family in Crisis" is typical of the physical abuse that occurs in thousands of homes each day.

Chapter 6: What Makes Them Stay?
Most people who come in contact with the inappropriate behavior of an alcoholic will simply walk away. But for many others it is not so easy.

Chapter 7: A Progressive Disease
Over the years -- slowly and insidiously -- alcohol begins to take more and more control in a subtle and stealthy manner until it finally comes to dominate all aspects of the drinker's life.

Chapter 8: Passing It On
An estimated 75 percent of those arrested for domestic violence report witnessing the same behavior in childhood, and 50 percent say they were abused themselves as children.

Chapter 9: Another Child Affected
Because of the insidious nature of alcoholism, alcoholics and even those around them sometimes do not notice that their behavior has slowly grown more extreme and unacceptable.

Chapter 10: The Final Chapter?
When alcohol begins to take more control of their lives, many alcoholics find themselves making promises that they cannot keep, buying things they can't afford, and signing contracts they won't possibly fulfill.

Chapter 11: The Cycle Repeats
When we last visited with our friends David and Glenda they were back together again as a couple and making plans for their future together, in spite of some dark clouds on the horizon.

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